Learn From Experience

Hi friends, this is the true story happened with my close friend and it disturbing me from few days, thought of sharing with you all. The characters what I’m talking here (boy and girl) were my classmates during my Engineering days. Here goes the story, Both were too good friends, their friendship started in 3rd semester, he was caring her like his own sister and she was also same she was treating him as her yielder brother, every thing was fine, there were some many people who jealous about there friendship I mean to say there were few girls who was feeling I should have guy like him as friend and there were few guys who was crazy to get a friend like her. During this time one guy entered her life as a boyfriend in her life. In begging she said no for him, gradually she said yes and she stated avoiding her close friend. For her close friend it became to hard to face the situation and the same time he stop talking to all of us and he avoided her for some time. But one of her friend suggested him that you should leave her like this because she may spoil her life please help her in coming out this love. He felt yes I should help her because at the end of the day she is my one and only best friend, and he started telling her what is good what is bad but that time she was not in a mood or not in a situation to listen to him, when ever he tried to convince her she hurt him back with saying no and ignoring him, then he also stated scolding her and consoling her he also thought about her happiness, but i’m not sure about her I mean what she was thinking about, he took too much time to come out of this disappointment, because every day he was seeing her in the class and the same hurt starts again. How ever slowly he learnt the art of being single and silent, and the same time his friends stated teasing with her name most of his friends played with his feelings, trust me after listening to this I felt like crying. After this engineering got over then for a one and half here he never called or messaged her, recently he met one of their common friend and he came to know that she is alone don’t know what happen and she is in troubling after hearing this he thought of calling here and he called also but she did’t talk properly and she hurt him back again, he kept his angry, hurt’s and teasing’s and insults she made and asked her to come back but she told there is no relation between. He cried again. I feel this is true friendship. My suggestion for you dear friend She is rite yaar, in this world every one is same I mean use and though she don’t have any feelings for you now because she knows you can’t give what she wants try to understand that, as she said for her, her happiness is important rite same way think for you also your happiness is important. I can understand your feelings for her, but the same time she should also have feeling for you rite or else your friendship will be one side. If she come back accept her don’t hurt her try to understand, if she won’t come back leave her don’t disturb her because if you try to contact her you’re the one who will get hurt not her, may be for her someone else more important than you, try to understand that and leave her to be happy, for you her happiness is important rite leave her to be happy don’t disturb her, and try to mingle with others friend. I know telling is easy and following that very difficult but you don’t have any other options. What I believe is what ever you do at the end of the day being happy is important and that should be the purpose of everything rite be happy and leave her to live happy hope to see you happy again. Be like kid and enjoy the every moment My suggestion for her I don’t know whether what your doing good or bad but one thing I would like to tell you is, Life is too short you don’t know when will things change or when we will die, we got only single and short life spend it happily. Every one do mistakes because life never comes with user manual rite? Accept truly forgive quickly and spend your life happily, forgive me if I’m talking nonsense or over reacting As I know every story will have happy ending or else it’s not an true ending I’m waiting for the happy ending in this case, Friends what you think please leave your comments